12 The Experience
16th February to 4th May 2021
I am absolutely thrilled to invite you to 12- The Experience, a 12 week online course for 12 women, where you will learn about, celebrate, share, discover and connect to the magnificence of your sexuality.
It’s no secret that most of are disconnected from our sexual selves, none more so than me who at the age of 42 found myself in sexual Siberia after the birth of my two children. This acknowledgement led me on a wonderful orgasm adventure and the creation of the podcast- 12.
The success of the podcast and subsequent feedback from wonderful women encouraged me to create this course so that I can share this deeply personal, and powerful work with women in a safe, supportive and loving environment.
Together with my team we will be guiding and supporting you though what is going to be a radical journey of self love, transformation and sexual awakening.
Who is this course for?
The course is for you if you feel drawn to it; whether you have never connected to your sexual self before, find yourself disconnected for any number of reasons or are simply keen to learn more.
Our time together will be fun, interactive, gentle, shame-free and supportive. We will pledge complete confidentiality to one another and will work to a code of kindness, generosity and love; love of each other and of ourselves. We will celebrate all achievements no matter how small.
Towards the end of our time together we will focus on relating our sexual selves to others by providing you with more self-knowledge; whether it be within a long-term partnership, new relationship or as a future possibility. This content has been designed to meet you where you find yourself. Maximum number on the course is 12.
What is the commitment?
2.5 hours a week for 12 weeks. Plus 2 x 30mins one-to-one time with a team member of choice. And completion of a simple online questionnaire before starting so we can get to know you a little.
Each week your time will be allocated as follows:
1 hour of solo work
1 hour Zoom guided discussion with us all
One 20/30min check-in call with your buddy
Our sexuality is a highly-complex and sometimes fraught subject matter. With 35% of women worldwide having experienced either physical and/or sexual intimate partner violence or non-partner sexual violence, it is not surprising (Source; World Bank 'Gender Based Violence' Sept 2019).
That is why 12 the experience includes access to a sex coach, tantric healer and signposting to a trusted trauma therapist. All will be available to you at a any time. If you think you are ready for this experience but have any questions or would like to talk about it further do not hesitate to get in touch so we can arrange a chat -
What is included?
12 hours of guided group discussion and personal exploration with a team of experts
12 x educational videos
12 x worksheets creating a reference of your experience
Detailed reference guide
3 x questionnaires created by leading thinkers in the field of sexuality designed to help you understand more about your sexual self
12 - honouring female sexuality podcast to accompany the course with the opportunity to ask the creator follow up questions
2 x 30min one-on-one time with a member of the team
4 to 6 hours of support from your buddy
Dedicated community Facebook page where group discussions will be saved for a limited period, people can access all the listed materials, ask questions and share
Guide to communicating about sex with a partner
Beginner's guide to tantra
Help identifying the right therapist, coach or healer if you desire to take your journey deeper
Group check-in six weeks after the course has completed
Gift to celebrate when you complete the course
"When a woman gets turned on, she tunes into her own magnificence, into her sense of deserving all that is wonderful in this life. She becomes radiant [.....]. An innately feminine wisdom begins to emerge, allowing her to trust herself, her voice, and her experience." Pussy A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer
12 The Experience - week by week
16th February to 4th May 2021
2.5hrs a week
Group Zooms will take place **EVERY TUESDAY AT 8.30PM GMT** - clear your calendar!
What to expect
Each week you will be sent a set of resources to spend time with; videos, articles, extracts from leading thinkers, as well as some questions to get you reflecting on how you relate to the week’s topic. Then, as time progresses the solo work will include practical steps, e.g. look at your vulva in the mirror, explore self-pleasure and ultimately choose new orgasms to try.
Zoom guided discussions
This is where a lot of the learning and magic will take place. Week 1 will set the foundations for a strong connection and trust between us. So that we can freely, safely and confidently explore topics that resonate from each week’s solo work. Sharing our experiences, perspectives, feelings and intentions. It might not always be easy but when we come up against obstacles, resistance and fear we will all be there to support one another. We will grow together. See ‘Zoom Style’ section below to decide whether our use of Zoom will work for you.
There will also be 2 x 30mins sessions with one of the team for you to use at any time throughout the 12 weeks. This is your time to use as you need. You may want to dig more deeply into a specific topic, get clarity on something, raise concerns, insights, breakthroughs that you do not want to share with the group. Book your slot using a simple online booking system.
You will be partnered with another woman from the group who you will check-in with each week. Your buddy will do the important job of listening to you without judgement. This check-in will take the form of a 20/30min call. You will be provided with a format for this time together.
The weekly Zoom discussions will be key to our learning, as will the trust we build with one another. Please join using your video and be ready to share. Call from a space where you will not be interrupted. Duvets, tea, wine, snacks, candles, pets, onesies etc. welcome.
Each Zoom session will open and close in the same way; providing a rhythm for our time together and ensuring everyone gets the chance to share.
£449.00 per person